Friday, March 2, 2012

Ahhh the joys...

It is so much fun having to try and refinance your house, decide who gets what, worry about how you are going to make ends meet and not try to kill the person who had turned your life into a living hell.

How I am going to survive until he moves out is the question...I cannot stand to even look at him, none the less deal with him.

The house is being refinanced in my name only and I cannot wait for that to be done--keep you fingers crossed that it goes smoothly.

The only stickler in me being able to survive monthly is the stupid car payment I will have to take over--the car is in his name and so is the title...SO tempted to just tell him that it's his problem, but I want to be the bigger person.  I've looked around at other cars and anything decent would only save me about $75 a month at the VERY most...and then I'd have another 5 year loan. Anything used is always full of unknowns and I have to have safe reliable transportatioin for me and my daughter. UGH..It will be less than 4 years left on the car I currently drive, so I might have to suck it up.

I never knew you could actually HATE a person so much that you USED to love so much.

1 comment:

Randi said...

You're very brave and strong.